In this product, Oprah love expert reveals how to bring back the FIRE into your love life

In five minutes you can have any of these proven secrets working for you even if you’re shy or embarrassed and even if you’ve tried everything but failed miserably…

So if you’re ready to add more fire to the bedroom, then keep reading – it may be the most important letter you’ve ever read…

If you want to make your sex life exciting. You want to make it hot. Passionate. Mind-blowing. You probably want to find ways to please your mate.

Whether your love life’s a little stale and you want to bring back the fire or you just want to make it even hotter you’ll find everything you need right here with over…

If you want to be the guy gets girls type of dude, or if you want to learn the basics for seducing women, listen to this: Body language is VERY important. According to studies carried out over 50% of your communication comes from your body language – what you DON’T say and less then 8% of your communication comes from what you DO say.

What does this mean to you?

If you are trying to seduce a woman or having more relations you need to know this: It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say things, and HOW you stand and HOW you act than it is to WHAT you say (at least initially).

You see, you could have the BEST game in the world and be able to really get any woman to like you loads, for example online, but if you used those same successful techniques in the real world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked eye contact etc – You would simply CRASH and BURN.

Honestly, body language is SOOOO important in attracting women.
Body language basics:

1. Smile

You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that you are a friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick as possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time. You also need to let her know that you are confident and comfortable around women. A big and genuine smile is the best way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen that you can tell is about to give you the “dead eye”, give her a big smile. Practice smiling at random people. You’ll be surprised by how many people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling WORKS. Just don’t make it a cheesy, fake smile

2. Eye contact

As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest – or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who drool over her. If anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at her chest – she’ll wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and she’ll seek your attention and subconsciously TRY to get you to look!

When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it can be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact with her around 70% of the time you are talking, this should be comfortable for most women. Don’t stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can make serious connections within people. They say the eyes are a window to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that. There are even speed dating type events being run that involve just staring into each others eyes – and from what I hear, they are pretty successful.

Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation time. Be natural.

3. Upright posture

Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do prefer men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors like Pitt, Cruise etc. They all have good posture. It says to a woman you are confident, healthy, and strong (at least in mind). It’s just generally more attractive and says lots about who you are. Plus it’s good for your back and will help strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.

Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.

4. Gesticulate with open palms

You will not hear this tip anywhere else (or if you do, it was almost certainly copied from this Turn on a guy course).

I’ve gone into in depth studies of body language and this one is a good one to use in MANY circumstances – I’ve adapted it here after solid testing to picking up women – however, some people suggest that when combined with a few other verbal and non-verbal techniques it can even give you a 50/50 chance of getting out of speeding fines!

Anyway, basically, when you are talking to a woman and trying to make a point (that puts you in a positive light) or defend yourself (for example, a girl suggests you might be a player) you talk and using your hands you have open palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your body with your palms facing the sky and smile as you talk.

It works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being honest and telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to trust you, making her think you are being straight with her, is important.

This open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a smile to work effectively.

Those are the basics of body language, if you’d like to learn more visit Tiffany Taylor’s site and Turn on a guy

The best things in life depend on our ability to create and maintain great relationships. Success, happiness, and the ability to give and receive love all hinge on our relationships. Most of us do a good job with relationships at the start. But why do we so often stumble down the road? Why do relationships develop such challenging problems?

In today’s society, more than 50% of all marriages fail for one reason or another. It seems that when relationships are faced with challenges, people quit trying. Dating is more like a marathon, trying to date as many people as possible, instead of taking time to get to know someone at a deeper level.

Healthy, and long-lasting relationships are definitely possible and proven by many people. Some persons made a decision of choosing to love their mate rather than relying on the “warm and fuzzy” feelings, which everyone knows will fade. By making love a choice you are making a decision that even in the bad times, you stick it out.

Here you will find tips that would help one to strengthen his/her bond with your lover:

• Learn how to say, ‘You were right. I was wrong. I’m sorry. Even for trivial things, that makes it easier to say when the big things come along.
• Spend quality time with your spouse/lover.
• Try to solve disputes in a peaceful manner.
• Praise your partner in every little thing that he/she does and congratulate him/her in his/her achievements.
• At times you can arrange a surprise party for your Valentine or can make arrangements for a candle night dinner.
• While taking a important decision give respect to your lover’s opinion.
• Make your lover acquainted with every sphere of your life.
• Express your love for your beloved and tell her/him how much you love her/him.
• Pay heed to your lover’s needs and desires.
• Try to fulfill your partner’s wishes.
• Give your sweetheart the feeling that he/she is an integral part of your life.
• Make it a point to remember and celebrate any special occasion, such as Valentine’s Day or birthday or any other occasion that is special for your lover.
• Accept your shortcomings
• Admit your mistakes
• Avoid deception
• Bring her flowers that remind you of her and write her a poem, celebrating her.
• Surprise her with romantic dinner out — don’t tell her where you are going.
• Take him somewhere he has been wanting to go and you haven’t, as a surprise.
• Special Greeting. If your mate has to work late and you know he had a bad day, surprise him with a late-night gourmet meal.
• Just Because. Give your mate gifts “just because.” These do not have to be expensive whatsoever.
• Leave the Baggage Behind. Every person has some kind of history, do not walk into a relationship with your arms loaded with that baggage. The past is the past.
• A Walk in the Park. Spending quality time together where you can talk and just enjoy each other’s company is critical to a good relationship.
• When your relationship is good, write a list of all the positive things you can think of about your partner. Read it when your relationship is going through a bad time.
• Discuss problems with your partner when things are good between you. It’s at these times that misunderstandings are less likely to occur.

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